|Ellen Elliott BALL, 1848-1935|
Yet apparently she was totally different. She always had a soft spot for children, and was well-known in the family for giving out sweets (and extra cash to those who asked). She was known as 'Great Aunt Ellen' (even if she wasn't your great aunt) and even today, years after her death, everybody in the family, whether or not they actually know any other ancestors, everybody has heard of 'Great Aunt Ellen'. My mother recalled their living arrangements when she was small. Granddad, Grandma, and seven children all in one bedroom, and Great Aunt Ellen in the other (amazes you that they managed to have seven children...). I have seen the house they lived in, and it is TINY.
Great Aunt Ellen never married, but was obviously beloved of all who knew her - and reverenced even by those who didn't.